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    elinMay 8, 2023 at 7:15 am

    i admire your way of thinking. i feel like we can all learn a lot from you. as a queer teen there’s nothing i relate to more; trying to express myself in my own way. i hate being put into boxes, yet alone trying to get other people to NOT put me into one.

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    eleanorSep 12, 2022 at 6:25 pm

    i’m pan and i have to wear a uniform to school and EVERY single time i mention the even the slightest thing about being gay people also freak out and tell me that i dont look gay and so this article reallyyyy helped me

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    FreyAug 16, 2022 at 12:27 pm

    This really helps me as I am gay myself

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    Arispoon.pjoJun 19, 2022 at 1:32 pm

    That was so inspiring. I loved it. I really strugle with that, ‘couse normaly i wear bright colors, not matching socks and earings and i love that and it makes me feel really qeer. But sometimes when i go to a training or am in swimsuit, I am insequre ‘couse I “don’t look gay”. This really helped me realize that I’m gay no matter what. Thank you <3.

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    AriTheDragonMay 13, 2022 at 9:43 am

    Lately I’ve loved to express myself through my hairstyle and my voice and my clothing. I find it very comforting. But as I see it as this… as long as my friends know who I am, I don’t care what others see me as. Unless I want to attract the fruity girls well then you know…GOTTA LOOK GAY lol.

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    Makayla ObergNov 29, 2021 at 9:22 pm

    Lately I’ve felt like I’m dont dress “gay” enough and I’m not as comfortable with my clothes are I was a month or so ago. I’m pansexual and care alot about how I look on the outside. I’ve been told by my gay friends that they wouldnt believe I was gay if it wasnt for me dating a girl. I’m starting to hate the way I’m dressing

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      Avisdee BrletrickJan 16, 2022 at 10:23 pm

      I’m pan too! All of my friends know that I’m pan but they all think I dress like a straight person!! It gets very annoying sometimes (coming from a 14 yo)

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        AriTheDragonMay 13, 2022 at 9:44 am

        I’m omni…I think…. maybe lesbian I don’t know. But I’m 14 years old too and I’m still trying to figure things out

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    JaliOct 28, 2021 at 7:32 pm

    I get it and everything but like how get girls to hit on me lol

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      AriTheDragonMay 13, 2022 at 9:46 am

      Flannels, talk to your shirts, roll up your jeans, skirts bonus points if they’re flannel too LOL. Short hair, piercings, rainbows LOL, like idk… it’s hard :,)

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    Chloe MasonOct 5, 2021 at 10:00 am

    this was such a beautiful article omg! particularly for young people growing up who are still struggling with their identity and figuring out how they want to present who they are to the people around them. as a joke one time, my friends tried to make me “look straight” and after fiddling with my clothes and changing my hair, they gave up because apparently it was impossible lol

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    MayaFeb 11, 2021 at 1:18 pm

    I myself am pansexual, where all my friends are queer too, I am verrryyy feminine and I feel like maybe my friends don’t believe me, they fit the stereotypes so well, I don’t want them to think that I’m fake,

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    UnknownJan 27, 2021 at 5:15 pm

    I’m bi, and I dress very straight. What can I say? I LOVE fashion!!! But my friends (all gay) want me to dress more “gay”. All they wear is black. So? I shop at AEO, What’s wrong with that? They have great jeans. My sister is also gay and when I brought up that maybe I should ask my dad if I could wear one of his shirts to school, she asked why I was trying to dress more masculine. I’m completely stuck. I’ve been looking at combat boots, belts, shirts, and all that jazz to buy with my money from Christmas.

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    Nola JonesSep 14, 2020 at 12:44 pm

    Im lesbian to i went to a harry styles concert and he told everyone that i was gay and i dress girly to and love fashion and maybe every once in a while i would dress gay btw on direction

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    CharlieSep 14, 2020 at 12:24 am

    This article is very true, I often try to wear “gay” clothes because I want to present lesbian and it also boosts my confidence but there shouldn’t be gay and straight clothes because you should be able to wear whatever clothes you want without being put under this label of being a certain way men should be able to wear dresses without being called gay all because a skirt is “feminine”

    I haven’t come out yet but I am dating this really amazing girl but I just need to say it to someone so here are my secrets have a lovely day and keep writing.

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    KaylaMar 3, 2020 at 8:25 pm

    You are literally my twin. My name is Kayla just like you. I’m a lesbian, my favorite color is yellow, and I also had a lot of fear that people wouldn’t believe me if I told them I was gay because I’m so girly. I am also a really good writer but not bold enough to peruse it as a career. We have so much in common. It’s so nice to see an article from someone who’s literally almost like me. I was really considering cutting my hair and dressing more gay because it’s so hard to meet other females. Maybe I’ll just stick with my style and just throw in a little rainbow colored bracelet with it lol. Thank you so much!

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